right, im pretty emotional right now. Finding it hard to even type this.
Basically, ive been with my boyfriend for a bit over 3 years now, and id say that in the last year ive been getting doubts. Thing is, with my anxieties and fear, it stops me from doing much, like, he pretty much just comes over here to see me. I cant go to his, I find it too hard cause i just get too panicky, even going out to do things i find hard. This understandably has taken a toll on our relationship, but he's so good about it, he just always thinks of me. My anxieties also make me overthink stuff, way too much, for example, several times this past year ive had sudden weeks of panic thinking that i no longer love him/want to be with him and it kills me each time. I hate it. I just want the feelings to go away, and i put it all down to my anxiety. It then goes away a bit and i feel a bit better about him, but its alwayus at the back of my mind. However, this past couple of weeks the feelings came flooding back to the point where last night i was in bits talking to my mum and sister and really confused about my feelings. I find that I often cant be bothered to speak to him because i find its like an effort to text. its not my ideal way of having a conversation, but i also dont really like phone chats. I much prefer just face to face. We only see each other about once a week though really, because of work, and him being at college and stuff. I like seeing him, but i also feel happy just doing my own thing (which is sitting at home with the family) its just my comfort and i love it.
Anyway, i spoke to him today after several tears, and we've decided to take a break, which i know we need to do, but im soooo cut up about it i literally cant stop crying, and i dont know if thats because ive realised i do want to be with him, or because im feeling bad and its different.
I really just need some opinions on whether people think i do really want to be with him, but my anxiety is clouding my vision, or if i dont really love him anymore.
sorry if theres mistakes and it doesnt make much sense. ive literally just typed without even thinking too much about it, i just feel so distraught.