Re: How to talk to people about your emet?
I have only told my mom. She didn't get it at first. I had to explain how it ruined my life, how I think about it constantly, and she has been arounhd my panic attacks, she knows how crippling it is for me.
I think you should tell your friends that this isn't just a normal fear. You are terrified of it and it's not something to take lightly. Tell them how you feel about them saying that.
Most people wont understand it. They don't deal with phobias. I actually have a phobia of spiders as well and I saw 3 in my room the other night and screamed bloody murder and I had to have my friend come over and kill them. Haha it's not something on my mind every second but I have to shake all my clothing out and shoes out and such to ease my mind to make sure there is no spiders in them!
I am in counseling. It took me awhile to find a counselor that had dealt with phobias like mine. I finally found one and she is just an angel. She makes me feel so comfortable. Her other client that she had was TERRIFIED of door knobs. Like we are of v*. And door knobs are literally everywhere. And she got him over the fear. Yes it was a boy who had the fear and now he doesn't. She has been helping me as well. I feel hopeful. I do have setbacks but they are short and quick to pass. I told you this because I think you should start looking into that. If you get the right one, it's great. I have my counselors number and know I can call her whenever if need be. I haven't had to do that yet.
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