I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. Before we got together as a couple we were best friends for about 5 years. In this time I kept nothing from him - he knew I was depressed he knew about my phobia and he knew about other deeply personal things. Since we got together as a couple he treats me so differently than he did when we were just friends, I feel I mean less to him now than I did then, but that's not the issue here.
He is supposed to be supportive of me, as my boyfriend he is supposed to want to protect me, to look after me, to tell me everything will be alright. Last night I freaked out because one of my little sisters V** when I was supposed to be going out and I considered not going out in case I was ill too. He shouted at me, called me stupid, said I was letting the phobia get a hold of me too much, said my behaviour is ridiculous, told me I use "the phobia" as an excuse for all of my "stupid" behaviour and that I use my therapist as a crutch. How can he say all these things? It was him that pushed me into therapy in the first place, and he said last night in a way I was better before it because I didn't rely on anything so much as I do now, he says it's "stupid" to hang my ability to be relaxed on whether I can go speak to another human or not. He should know what it's like because he had therapy himself when he was depressed.
I just don't understand.
Sorry for the rant.
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