My ten year old daughter suffered a severe anxiety attack today. It came from no where like they always do and I was not able to calm her down, mostly because she thought she was going to throw up. She didn't even want me by the bathroom door to talk to her. What I don't understand is that she had the stomach virus earlier this year and it didn't even phase her. So why the sudden fear? My husband blames me for passing my fear over to my kids and believe me I know it is my fault, but it hurts so bad to be told that. He won't even really talk to me. All he ever does is yell about everything. I'm really tired of feeling shitty, being treated shitty, but most of all being a shitty mother. I have got to get my shit together. How do you mothers and fathers do it? Obviously I'm doing it all wrong.