Hey all,
I've been seeing a few comments lately of people choosing to delete their accounts and vow to never return to this site. I just wanted to weigh in on this and see how others may feel about it.
Personally, there are times I wish I never found this site, and there are times I couldn't be more grateful for it. However, as of late, I tend to be leaning toward hating its existence. I spend much of my day on my laptop just using Facebook, shopping online, YouTube, and of course, IES. I have many days where my anxiety levels are really low, where I find myself not thinking about v* or Norovirus and ultimately having a good day. These are days where I don't get any Google News Alerts about Norovirus and no one on my Facebook is going on about themselves or their kids being sick. These are the days I look forward to and cherish. But then, I get an e-mail telling me that someone has replied to a thread I am following, I click the link and end up reading each and every new thread. Threads about these new unknown viruses that are causing people to v*, threads about news stories, ill family members, local outbreaks, etc. And within seconds, my wonderful anxiety free day has turned into a shit storm and I am forced to dope myself up with Gravol, Zofran, and a few other of my anti-anxiety medications. I end up in the worst anxious state imaginable and normally am unable to get even a wink of sleep.
But then, on a particular bad day when I am desperate for some kind of support or reassurance, I can always count on the members here to be there for me. Even reading the support given to someone else often helps me to rationalize my thoughts and in turn calm me down.
I am curious how IES effects everyone else? For me, it is very much a love/hate relationship. I can't seem to prevent myself from logging in day after day, because while I know there is a chance of it causing me incredible anxiety and stress, I also fear not knowing what may be happening around me. It is almost like I fear that if I am not aware of the things everyone posts, that I may end up letting my guard down and end up getting ill, but on the other hand, reading some of these threads makes me feel like the guard I have up is never enough.
So, yeah, I'd love to hear some other input about this. Am I alone in feeling this way?