Re: Mental health problems caused by emetophobia. I need my mother to understand it.
Well first off, it does sound like she cares alot and trys to understand but remember, if you did not have this phobia, how stupid would it sound to you?
My mum is the same even though she is emet but she is not as bad as me and can control her life with it and goes and lives it to the full, but cant understand why I cant control it. Gets mad when i lay around in bed and wallow for instance.
Try showing her us all here. Then she may understand more people have it too. I have social anxiety too but not too bad.
Maybe buy her a gift? A thanks for understanding what you could. Go to therapy maybe without her this time so only you tell the therapist what is going on and not someone else. They may love you but only you know whats really going on inside your head.
Tell her just because she has had it for a long time does not mean she should have to put up with it. Tell her that her life can be better. Go on a little get better mission together. Try and say it in a loving way. Sit her down. Cup of tea, hold her hand, look her in the eyes and tell her that you will help her and help yourself. She may be scared of change as anxiety seems to be what she has known most of her life. Re assure her her life can Only get better, and you will love her and be there behing her the whole way. May I reccomend reading Thrive by Rob Kelly? For both of you. Buy 2 versions though as you have to write personal things in it. Its an online purchase. I highhly reccomend it for her more so than you but I would say to you to buy it also, one so its less scary for her and two because I feel it would benifit you alot. Im reading it, and have heard many success stories. He aims at all phobias, fears, addictions etc.
We are always here for you and your mother. Hugs! Wish you well on your adventure, should you choose that path
May your dreams be bigger than your fears