Aww, Michele, I'm so sorry. Apparently timing isnt' one of his strong points. I agree w/ what the others said. In the long run it is his loss and you will find someone worthy of all the wonderful things you can offer. You are so strong even if you dont' know it and you willg et thru your surgeries w/ or w/o him or anyone else because at the end of the day it's what must be done and you are able to do it. That's not to say it will be fun, but you will look back on this and be able to say you went thru it on your own and that you are the person you are because of your fortitude. We are all here to back you upand pray and think of you while you go thru all of this. I hate it when I am upset and people say this to me but I'm going to say it to you because it's true ... this will end. at some point the pain, the surgeries, the debt, all of it will be resolved and you will be the better person for having gone thru it.
\"As soon as you trust yourself,you will know how to live.\"
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
\"Do not anticipate trouble, or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight.\"
Benjamin Franklin