Re: stupid anxiety someone help
How are you feeling now dear?
Yes! I get the same thing sometimes.
When I was little I woke with a sv* and v*ed without warning. Ever since, even over ten years later every time I wake unexpectedly I flash back to that time. Even if I don't feel s* when I wake, I still freak out and think I'm going to v* ("why else would I wake up?")
I can tell you now, if you were actually s* you would have v*ed long before now. Us emetophobes generally (and only if we will ourselves very, very strongly) can hold in the v*. When I had noro a year ago, I didn't v* for hours. I panicked, cried, drank water and powerade, cried some more, and then eventually my noro'd body just said go to sleep. So I did, and an hour later, once I had relaxed in sleep, I woke up and v*ed. So I can assure you if it was going to happen, it would have happened by now dear!
Try get some sleep or do something to distract yourself
Remember, by avoiding things you let the fear get worse. I can tell you first hand. I used to feel the same way. Too scared to go to school the next day, so I'd fake a sickie. Got very good at it too, which has helped my acting haha. But one day I said, you know what anxiety? I need to go to school. So I did. And I was fine. Anxious, but fine! Once you get with your friends, I find it a lot easier to control my anxiety. The next time I felt the same way, I had to remind myself about he last time. Eventually it gets to the point where you can go to school despite the fear.
It's hard to get yourself to go to school. But it's worth it (even if it is school!)
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