I don't have any advice cause I don't have that experience, but I hope everything will be fine!! It's really sad to read this because we can all totally relate with her :/ It's hard...so hard. I can't imagine myself being pregnant and I want kids!! I really want. And your wife is brave if she decided to have children. i hope she'll get through this without so much anxiety. I really really wish you luck stay strong, I know it's hard.