Re: huge mood swings in emetophobic partner
I know at times my emet is really bad I have zero self confidence. I think about how much of a burden I am, how crazy I am, how much I think I will hold someone back from really living life.
I broke up with my last boyfriend because he loved kids. He wanted nothing more than to have a family, and that included kids. Me, I don't know if I will ever have kids (granted, even without emet I am unsure about kids). My current boyfriend doesn't want kids, but I still fear I'm a burden. Nobody should have to put up with me and my crazy ways except me. I often think I am much better off alone, and I know many of us get that way at times.
I often wonder if I could deal with being with an emet if the roles were reversed. She's lucky to have met someone who sees past her phobia, best of luck to you and her
“Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.”
“We are the girls with anxiety disorders, filled appointment books, five-year plans. We take ourselves very, very seriously. We are the peacemakers, the do-gooders, the givers, the savers. We are on time, overly prepared, well read, and witty, intellectually curious, always moving. We pride ourselves on getting as little sleep as possible and thrive on self-deprivation. We drink coffee, a lot of it. We are on birth control, Prozac, and multivitamins. We are relentless, judgmental with ourselves, and forgiving to others. We never want to be as passive-aggressive as our mothers, never want to marry men as uninspired as our fathers. We are the daughters of the feminists who said, “You can be anything,” and we heard, “You have to be everything.”