I haven't been online since Monday as I was nervous after all the hate speech but checked my email to see Sage has dealt with the real trolls and vindicated the fact my IP is authentic and that I don't go by any other names. All I did was say I was very upset by another user's insensitive comments (something I have never found before on here hence my shock, though I appreciate she did not intend to offend) and then all this unnecessary drama happened which I made sure I stayed well out of, I don't have the time and I don't see how others do. I only knew about what had happened since Monday as Laura and Midi
who I know outside this forum personally, told me about all this nastiness and suspicion. Now to focus on what this forum should be about, support and understanding. We aren't here to cure each other and force people to be further ahead in their progress than they are ready to be. We are here to be with people in the moment they are anxious. That is the most important thing. I believe we should leave therapy to the professionals. I respect others may disagree with me but then I respectfully ask we go our separate ways within this forum without any further nastiness. Thanks again Sage x