Re: desperate for help!
Hey Becca,
First of all welcome, it's great to meet you! From everything you're saying it definitely sounds like anxiety - I'm exactly the same sometimes, I will get a minor pain in my stomach, perhaps from having been sitting with an awkward posture, and if I'm not distracted, I will 'notice' it and suddenly the pain is amplified and turns into a full blown panic attack, along with the n*. Many of us here are worse at night too. It may not be much reassurance, but I'll share a little of my story with you.
For the last four months now I've been getting what has become daily stomach pain - it's so intense the pain has me (a fully grown man) in tears and on the floor, and I've been to hospital with it multiple times - alongside that I get n*, and feel as though I'm about to v*, which happens several times with each 'attack'. In fact, I'm having an attack right now as I type this to you, although not panicking too much because I'm so used to it, and the pain is tolerable.
Anxiety makes me condition (whatever it is, nobody knows atm) much worse, amplifies the pain and the n* and prolongs everything too, such is the power of the mind. My favourite distractions are to put some boring television on and try to really involve myself with it. Or I will read a magazine from cover to cover. They don't take the pain away, nor the n*, but they do lessen it - finding a distraction is the key, although you might want to see your doctor about some anti-anxiety medications too (see what the options are)
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