I avoid telling anyone because I don't want people to tiptoe around me or feel like they have to accommodate me, but I've had to tell the people I spend the most time with because I get sudden anxiety if I have an intrusive thought about v* or if I encounter someone who says they feel s* or n*. When I get anxiety I go completely silent and start fidgeting and have to focus on one thing. I won't really reply if someone tries to talk to me. So I don't want anyone to think I'm just being moody or that I'm mad at them haha.