Sorry you are having such a tough time. I know it is hard for our loved ones to understand, but it does seem your fiance is not being very understanding. My husband has always known I do not like v*, but it is only recently that he has learnt just how bad my fear is. He still finds it difficult to understand but he is trying hard.


I cannot see why he has banished you to the sofa. He is your fiance and should try to understand just how bad you are feeling. He should be supporting you not making you feel worse. I hope you manage to sort this out and your fiance learns to understand how you are feeling. Good luck!