The thing you really need to do is take a step back and try to understand what areas of your relationship are being affected by the emet. It's easy to say that if he really loved you he'd be more supportive. But I know from my own relationships that our partners endure alot of hardship from this illness also. We are often too caught up in our illness that we don't fully realize what we dump in the lap of others. You have to remember that to those who don't suffer from emet our fear is is completely irrational. It's kind of looked at as a personality flaw. Someone without emet will never fully understand the terror that many of us endure every day.
Having said that, simply try to find out what parts of your illness bother your fiance the most. I know in my case, I didn't realize that we hadn't gone out as a couple for over a year. No movies, no dinner at a restaurant, no playing cards with friends.I remember the depression and wishingI could do all the things that I was missing out on but it neverdawned on me that my fiance was missing out on life just as much as I was. It wasn't until I started to do much better that I realized the extent to which my illness disrupted my family and their daily lives. And all of it for anillness that was "in my head". Do your best to look after your role in the relationship. If he is unwilling to offeryou any support or communicate with you on how your illness is affecting him thenobviously there isn't going to be much you cando to correctthings. If he is just completely unwilling to understand what you're going through then the relationshipjust isn't going to work. Emet will always be a part of your life and it will always affect you, whether your're "cured" or not.
A special thank you to my daughter Alyssa. Your strength and courage gives me great inspiration. Where I am weak, you are strong. I will always love you.