I agree w/ finishing or fixing your current relationship before tempting yourself w/ another. Personally I wouldn't go because you are both vulnerable and looking for soemthing you aren't getting and it's a recipe for disaster. I know your hubby isn't quite how you'd like him to be but he is your hubby, unless you choose to leave him. Ultimately it will be your decision but sometimes it's better to think w/ your head rather than your heart/horomones lol/emotions. I can see where you'd want to meet up, he is saying al the right things etc but even if you met up, left your hubby and got w/ this guy you would know it began dishonestly and also you'd both be going in at a time of, for lack of a better word, desperation or lonliness. Not the best way to begin a relationship. I think you should just figure out where your marriage is going and wher eyou want it to go and if you do end up single again then seek this other guys out. Good luck! We're here for ya!
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