CJ...Glad you found us. I know that freaky feeling you get and I get so scared at night too. Last night I felt awful too and I took 2 Benadryls and went to bed. Better today, but my son has a cold and he gags and V*'s from that and he has been doing it a little this A.M., so I am still a bit nervous. Hope you are better and I hope that we are helpful to you here since your wife is not yet understanding your phobia. One day, she may understand it..my husband has really gotten much better at dealing with me and actually helping me deal with this awful issue.
TRY to live each day like it were your last