I don't know the in's and outs of meat at all sorry. And I'm not sure for a fact about milk but it reminded me that the other week my mum made scrambled eggs (or whatever it is you need milk for lol) well later on I was cleaning the fridge out and smelled the milk. My nose wanted to die! Haha I was like "MUM how could you do that" she claimed not to have known it was bad, so I asked her wasn't she worried? And she said nope not in the slightest lol. Well she didn't get sick (and my mum has THE most sensitive stomach)
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