I've long held a theory that there are 2 types of emet, the ones who are fighting the nausea, nausea is the enemy, all energy into that (which is who i was for a LONG time) and the ones fighting the anxiety behind it. Ok I know we're all fighting emet don't get me wrong or think I am saying some people dont want rid of it, just sometimes our energies get misplaced and caught up in the anxiety of it all. Like I've said before everyone is at a different stage and some are more open to what people have to say than others, it's about knowing how much each person can take, and thats not always easy in an online situation.