two things:
1) jen: don't be so hard on yourself. beating yourself up doesn't help anything...it just makes you feel way worse.
2) rachelle: good on you. my therapist explained to me that there's a strong link between behaviour, thought and anxiety, and that the first step is dealing with the behaviour. here's how he explained it to me. every time i don't touch a doorknob because i'm afraid of the germs on it, i reinforce the thought that the doorknob=germs and that that's a bad thing, and it reinforces the anxiety i feel around the issue. but if i DO touch the doorknob, and i do it repeatedly, eventually the thoughts are given less power and lead to way less anxiety...does this make sense? that's why your behaviour is a great first step toward healing, and not to mention that it will simply make you feel better because you're getting out more and because you're setting out to beat this thing, which is powerful psychologically.
<font size=\"4\"><font color=MAGENTA><font face=\"Times New Roman, Times, serif\">It can, and does, get better with time.</font></font></font>