Hi guys,
I hate to be a "downer", but could really use some support right now. I am sooooo depressed. I cry alot, and just feel likerunning away. I am ALWAYS surrounded by someone, mostly people I love, but I just wanna drive away and be alone for a few days.
Hubby is a cold-blooded ass. He was getting nicer (attitude-wise), then now he's a jerk again. I am 39 years old, and beg him to show me affection, like hugs, DECENT kisses, nice words, etc., and I beg him to pay attention to me, ask him if he wants me and stuff. I'm f**king pathetic! I feel that I will never be what he wants, or anyone else for that matter. He will MAKE TIME in his "busy" day to watch a stupid game on TV, go over the checkbook in detail, etc., but can't find 15 seconds in his day to give me a hug that he knows I need so bad. I swear, ever since my mom died, I can't shake this feeling of "life sucks", ya know? I had a hard time on Easter, remembering when I used to dress my kids up in cute outfits when they were little, and going to my mom's and grandma's to visit, they're both gone now, and I can't handle this. I miss my kids being little, my mom, and just the way life used to be. Also, hubby didn't give me a card or Easter Lillies or ANYTHING on Easter, just said a half-assed "Happy Easter". I made a nice dinner and made sure the day was special for my daughter. I would have liked something from hubby too. I invited my sons over, but they couldn't come, so that made me sad too.
Well, I just feel that I need time to myself, to work things out in my head. No hubby, no kids, no nobody around me at all. Is that selfish? Sometimes I even feel that I could SO EASILY make it all go away--end it all. One minute, alive, and literally the next minute, peace. The ONLY thing stopping me is my daughter. She couldn't live without me. I feel that hubby would be relieved though, you know, I'd finally be quiet because I'd be gone. I really feel this way, and cry and feel frustrated because I can't do this, I have to stay here and be a mom. I can't cry in front of her because it makes her sad too. I miss my mom sooooooooo much, it hurts sooooo bad. Hubby is a prick but I love him for the times he isn't being one, and I DON'T wanna go through another divorce, but I need love also. I just need to clear my head! SOmetimes I'm even afraid to sleep at night, for fear that I'll wake up and end it all, without really thinking about it. I hate when I feel like this, but it's happening more often now, and I can't cope, I'm afraid.
I'm sorry for this, I really do try to be a good person to people who need me, but I need people too, and just can't find it in hubby, and mom's gone. When I feel like this, I either am very sad and withdrawn, or turn into a b**ch to everyone. I'm lost.