I dont know about you guys, but i find it really hard to make new friends, especially when i am in a large social group. i often have one or two very close friends, but then the other people in a large group i find hard to get on with, often because of their obssesions with going out every night and v* and whats worse is they talk about it graphically the next day at college!
well my problem is that my close friends are leaving to go to uni next year, so i will be left on my own. i am frightened, because i dont really know anyone that will be staying and i will be one big loner at school.
i hate being on my own especially at school. it really freaks me out and i find my self think about unwanted thoughts. my friends distract me from this, and i become more outgoing when i am with them.
another problem is that because i live quite close to college, i tend to go home alot which decrases anxiety, but also decreases the amount of friends i have, as people will often stay for luch where i will go home.
any suggestions on how to make new friends?