Is there anyone out there that is in a successful marriage (and has
been for a while now) that could lend advice? How do you know he is the
one? I always wished for that love that you just can't get over. I
thought I had it but when we seperated I got over it and quickly too!!!
And now I'm with someone else, and I love him, but it is not the insane
love I had for the first guy. This one is more like we just are and we
have always been and I wish I could do it forever kind of love. But
what if it isn't and if it doesn't work out I just get over him too and
find some other guy? How do you know? Is there any way? Everyone is
always divorcing. I scarcely know two people who aren't, and those that
aren't but have been married for 5 years or less don't really count I
think cause you don't really know where that is going to go... I miss
him when he is gone, we don't argue unless it is something really big
and that is very rare, I respect and admire him, I wish for his
approval and I want to make him happy. But hey, I think if I recall
correctly, I felt just about the same about the other guy (except for
the respect, admiration and aproval thing cause he was kind of a
loser). But I do recall thinking that he was the one. And now that I'm
not with him I realize that he isn't. I try to listen for that little
voice inside your head that tells you what is right, and the only thing
I hear is that it would be a good idea if I got a better grip on myself
(such as my phobia and a good idea of the next step carrier-wise) but
doesn't say anything bad about him at all. I am so confused...