Well you don't seem to be outspoken like me, cause almost as soon as I meet someone I tell them about my emet. Not because I just blurt it out or something, don't get me wrong I'm not shouting it from the rooftops but usually when I meet someone new they ask me if I want to go out to eat or something like that. Then I always say something like, "Sure but I'm not really hungry" and then they push the issue and it's the only thing I can think to say to explain it.
I remember with one of my friends (Before I knew what this phobia was called) I didn't eat out with him, I would go to resturants with him but I would never eat anything. I would freak out around food and not touch a bite. Finally about a year later I found out what the phobia was called and I told him about it. He laughed (Not at me) and said that it made A LOT of sense. The most he's ever seen me eat is half of a burger from my favorite resturant on my birthday. Other then that he hasn't seen me eat anything else. He tries to get me over it, really he tries and I love him for it. He always says, "So what if you v*? Then you V* and it's over that's it." He also says things like, "I've eaten out at resturants most of my life and have never gotten food poisoning." He claims that the only time he's ever gotten FP is from someone actually at home preparing his food wrong.
He's the best friend I have and although he tells me I'm crazy (Jokingly) he has learned to put up with my emetophobia the best he can. When he asks me something like..."Why don't you ever [blank]" and I said, "It's cause of my emet" he just nods, he understands to the best of his ability, god bless him for that. But I've never met a person who laughed AT me or didn't believe me. And I've told A LOT of people, random people, people I just meet, it explains my odd behavior. I don't hide it but I can understand why people would think it would be embaressing...I guess I'm not the best one to give advice cause frankly I don't give a flying rat's patootie what people think of me.
Sorry for the long rambling post.
~Monica
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