My sister is a pain in the ass

[hippychick]

Sh*t guys, I'm so scared right now. My sister always eats and always eats plenty lol she is known for it. But today halfway through her dinner she didn't want anymore and I caught her telling her friend that she needs a to go to the Dr or something. Then I find out she's got D*. She's acting weird and distant which is really unusual. I'm so freaking out right now. I f*cking hate this. I feel like I won't even get to enjoy christmas
now.

xxxxxx

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[calibmom24]

I feel your pain. I am not enjoying Christmas Eveat all because my husband was sick the night before last so I am worried we will all get it. Try not to worry.There could be many causes. Just make sure she washes her hands alot (I know it is hard to tell people that). Just try to enjoy the day!! Merry Christmas!!

[hippychick]

Well false alarm anyway, turns out her ex bf who she has spent the last year trying to get over is back in town (He's in the RAF) he asked if she wants to go out tonight and of course she is saying she wants to. My mum is out with her BF later so now I'm alone on christmas eve. Yay families.[img]smileys/smilies_05.gif[/img]

I mean really I understand their need to spend time with other people and even if she doesn't go it's more the fact that she WANTS to go and not be with family, same for my mum.

I'm finding it a hard adjustment, it used to be for chritsmas the three of us would stay in from xmas eve through to boxing day just us 3 and have so much fun and now no one except me wants to do that. This blows.

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[jennyleigh1975]

Awww, I am so sorry you are having to go through this. It does suck sometimes how things change though. Family members move, die, get significant others, act like s**t heads (which is the case with some of my in-laws, lol!) and all the sudden its a different routine for us so to speak. I dont deal with change well in regards to some things, so I know this is hard on you, I can sooooooo sympathize. My thoughts are with you.[img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]

[hippychick]

I mean I could deal with the change (though not well) When my mum said she wouldn't be home I was sad but ok whatever, my sister and I made plans to curl up, watch a movie etc. I rarely get to see my sister as we are both so busy. But then this f*cker of a guy text her and she was off like a shot without any regard at all.

I know she's young, maybe I'm being selfish. It just hurts that I spent all year looking after her because of this guy, I have been SO nice about it and hugged her while she cried and watched films to cheer her up and he clicks his fingers and I don't get so much as a second thought.

It makes me really sad is all

[jennyleigh1975]

Ahh, I remember being young, lol, and having that one guy that when he said jump, you said how high sweetie? She will mature one day before long a realize that if the guy really loves her, he will wait because it is important that she spend time with her family. I know if proablly hurts your feelings that after all you did to support her while this guy hurt her .......... she runs off with him again.

Its ok to be sad though, Im sad sometimes that my in-laws are the way they are, and that all my family is pretty much passed on. This time of year is especially hard.

[hippychick]

Hey

Well she is still scaring me today, she is not hungry at all. And for my sister that is such a weird thing, she eats all the damn time lol she is never not hungry. She hasn't been sick but she said she felt "ropey" last night. Maybe it's the upset of this bloke being around, I just don't know but it's scaring me so now I don't feel safe enough to eat what I wanted.

Then she has been texting him ALL morning even when my mumopened her presents. She's pretty much pissed me off all night/day. It sucks, I was so looking forward to today.

I feel like it's only a matter of time before she throws up and since she's THE most unclean person ever that means it's only a matter of time before we do too.

I'm so sorry to hear of your family, my dad died when i was little so i miss him a lot this time of year,

xxxxx

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[jennyleigh1975]

I really hope that nothing is wrong with your sister, sv, wise, and that she will wise up about this guy.

[6pksummer]

I can totally relate to how you are feeling! My 2 girls were v* within 30 mins of each other till 4am this morning... So ya, merry f*ucking xmas to me!!!