Scared :(

[ruhligv]

My boyfriend came over tonight to watch a movie and snuggle and we were kissing and having a nice time. Well he went to the bathroom and I heard him in there, sounded like he was having the runs... Ad when he came out I asked him if he was okay and he said, 'I think so, I've had an awful headache all day and my stomach has been upset...' And then he laid on my bed while I made him some tea and he fell right to sleep. He never sleeps over! So now he is laying here next to me snoring while I'm finishing this movie by myself and he is snoring and possibly contagious and ill! Idk if I should wake him up and kick him out but I feel mean doing that... Oh I just herd his tummy gurgle really loud and he's sweating. He woke up for a second and said his guts hurt but he doesn't want to drive home. I has no idea how scared I am of getting sick!

[ruhligv]

He* has no idea how scared I a m of getting sick! Now I'm having a panic attack and wondering what to do. I'd gladly drive him home, but he fell back to sleep. I don't want to get sick! Hoping its just something he ate, he went to his nieces bday party today and said he ate like 3 sloppy joes and some ribs and cake...

[Murder-my-soul]

It might be just that. I am pretty sure he will be okay. Maybe wake him and say he isn't aloud to stay because of (make up something). I have had this happen. Pretty sure if he was really ill he wouldn't be sleeping. Many reasons as to why his stomach could hurt.

[ruhligv]

Thank you, he's still out cold. Maybe ill go take a bath or something to try to calm down, I doubt ill be able to sleep tonight! I so desperately want this phobia not to affect me anymore! He talks about getting married and having kids someday! How can ever do those things if I can't handle him having a tummy ache at my house?! I'm so sick of this phobia! and how can I explain it in a way that he will understand? Last time I said something about it he just said, 'oh you're gunna be fun to be around when you get pregnant!' He has no clue how I really suffer from this... And I am scared if he did he would think I was crazy!

[ruhligv]

I also didn't want for the first night he spent over to be me having a panic attack the whole time terrified he was about to wake up and be ill! I live in my own apartment and don't really know of a good reason I could kick him out for... He was supposed to go home and come back tomorrow morning to go to church with me. Now idk what's gunna happen. What if I'm taking. Bath and he has to rush in there to get sick?! Ill die!

[fixxxer2012]

Just let him have the bed and you sleep on the couch. That way your safe in case he is sick. It might of just been something he ate too. Its impossible for us to know.

[Murder-my-soul]

Put a trash can or something next to him and if he asks, tell him that you wanted to make sure he was gonna be okay. I have had my boyfriends sleep over and many occasions where they have been drunk or something and haven't v*. If they did which was like once, they made it to the bathroom. I have no fear of others being sick though, only myself. Try a bath, maybe sleep in another room. When they get up say that it was too crammed on the bed or too hot or lie and say he pushed you off or something haha I have done that. I would ahve kicked him out. But if you can't or won't, just try to relax, maybe draw, write some music, go to another room.

[ruhligv]

I have a teeny tiny love seat lol but I will prob try to just sleep on that. He's laying diagonally in my bed anyways at the moment... (He's 6'4") I woke him up to see if he wanted to go home and he said he just needed a nap and then he would go... He was like half asleep. He said it was just gas.. I'm hoping he's right! But even if he is, and it is... What will happen some day if we get married and he does inevitably come down with something? I want this fear to GO AWAY!

[ruhligv]

Murder my soul, if I knew he was just drunk or something I wouldn't be nearly as upset because I couldn't catch it. Ugh the joys of emetophobia. I get anxious when others get sick only because I'm terrified ill catch it. :-/