never posted here but read everyone's posts all the time. I have had this phobia since I can remember, it is so comforting to know I am not alone) My husband did "it" last night. He did not eat much at dinner, then he drove my son to religion class and it happened on the way home. He also had an accident in his pants. I called him this morning (He went to work....OMG!!!!) and he said he did not v** again, but still has it from the other end. After talking to several people here at work I come to find out lots of people have had it or just recently had it. God I hate this time of year, I wish I could just be reassured that I won't get it. I would do just about anything to not v**. Nice to meet you all, Pam