Help/reassurance please.. :/

[Rls1994]

I'm meeting my GF next Saturday and she said she v* twice yesterday and said it may have been a bug. I heard that the SV can last in your stools for up to a month which means it still can be passed onto me if she doesn't wash her hands after a BM, right? And what about kissing? Will it be alright? I'm such a stupid idiot because I want to call off the date because of this. I also think I shouldn't be with her at all because I'll be asking if she's feeling okay 24/7 and make up excuses for not meeting her if she falls ill before we meet. Even if she told me she hasn't been ill recently, I don't think I'd believe her because I've been lied to before about people saying they've never got sick recently when they DID have the SV. She says she understands but I don't think she does.. I really like her and don't want this stupid phobia to ruin yet another relationship. I know, I know.. It's SO easy to say, "don't let it ruin your life" but when you encounter your fear, that saying goes out of the window. I usually steer clear from people that *may* or have had the SV* for up to a month. It will make my GF feel awful if I cancel the date because she's traveling quite far to see me and looks forward to seeing me..

What should I do?