Oh yeah. I have a friend who everytime her kids get sick or when she was pregnant likes to tell me how "you couldn't handle this, it's awful" and it's supposed to be "casual or concerned" but BS. It's her trying to show me she can do something she thinks I can't. Whatever. I don't know your friend and didn't hear the conversation but you do and did. If your gut tells you she got some joy ... you're probably right. People suck sometimes! Sorry that happened.
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