MY BF JUST GOT SICK

[rubysoho120]

Okay, so I'm totally freaking out...we live together, so im so scared i
will get it. Yesterday he ate... muffin, yoguert, then at 11 a beer,
then at like 11:30 a 40 once beer, then 3 he had eggs, bacons that was
a little undercooked, and potatoes and i ate that too... but it was
kinda undercookd because it was a nonstick pan...welll then at like 5
he started feeling ill...said he had gas and pressure and he gets that
a lot, so i told him to lay down and gave him some ibprofin for the
pain and then he had some toast and said he was having waves of n* and
then feeling totally fine...well we went home from my moms and he told
me then that it didnt make him feel like v* it was just gas. then at
home he was feeling better and ate ome steak, potaotes and gravey, just
a little bit, that was about 8pm and he said he still felt some gas but
was okay....so this whole time we were sharing food and drinks!!! then
he woke up at 12 v* he said he woke up becaue he needed to cough and
then it just happened a LOT, and i ran outside...im so scared im going
to get it... but now he feels fine, no tummy ache at all, no fever...im
thinking his body just didnt like the all that beer with greasy bacon
and other greasy food. and he didnt poop today, so i think that was the
only way his body could get it out. Does that sound right??? Or does it
sound like a sv*? he hasn't felt sick any more...its been an hour. hes
in bed watching tv. he said that his tummy muscle hurt while it
happened and thats what made him stop doing v* Please anyone please
please please. I need opioions, does it sound like a sv*? or just food
that didn't agree wit him....we have both had a little d* here and
there all week. I'm so scared Im going to get it...how long till im in
the clear if it is a sv*? how likly that i will get it from him because
we did kiss and have sex yesterday??? im so scared. i dont know what to
do. i even had a dream last night that he was v* and now it happened.
im so freaked out....is that just a cowinsodent??? please
someone...anyone??? i dont think i would be scared if he had not have
imtimate kissing and food sharing before he was sick...like if it was
my mom i would be like no risk, but my bf whom i live with BIG RISK


Edited by: rubysoho120

[daffodil]

It sounds like he had some indigestion, and the greasy food and beer probably did not help. Remember, that as a non-emet, he does not mind v*, so it may well have been from the indigestion. There have been many times that I have had bad indigestion/gas, that if I was not emet, I would have given in and v*.
Since you two ate the same, I think you would have been sick by now if you were going to. Also, even if he does have the sv, just kissing/being intimate/sharing food you would not have been exposed, b/c he was not v* or having d* at that time, and according to Alvin, it is passed by the infected person's v* or fecal matter.
I just remembered, several years ago this same thing happened to my ex. He had indigestion and bad gas pain, and he v* from it. I think it is fairly common in non-emets to let it happen to relieve the pressure.

[rubysoho120]

yeah he just v* again....im totally freaking out and shaking...i think
he is dehyrated..like he didnt drink any water all day...just those
beers. idont knowwhat to do...but i thik its still from the dehraytion
and food...not sv* there is no d* just gas....im scared...he says he
feel fine now...but then i gave him water an hour later...three sips
and he got sick the second time...so maybe he really is sick??? what do
you think?? im shaking right now. i think he is dehrdated....what do i
do...if it is a sv* how long till im in the safe? but he says his
stomach doesnt hurt and he doesnt feel n* until the second that v*
happens...so that doesnt sound like a sv* more like too much
beer/greasy food i dont know wh at to think...help

[marieb73]

How is he feeling? How are you feeling?

[shiva]

Yikes. That is scary. I know you probably feel like you are going to lose it, but you are doing a great job keeping it together. Try not to focus so much on the what if's. I know it's hard, but stay focused. How is he doing now?

[daffodil]

How much did he drink? Could it be the alcohol?

[rubysoho120]

he is all better other than being super dehydrated. im going to get him
so gatoraid...but the second time he got sick...i know ti was from
having water too soon... he couldnt sleep because he felt bad all night
for scarying me, and it was cold for some reason in the house...but im
still totally scared...do you think it was a stomach flu? no d* and
just the one v* and then the water sick v* so im thinking its because
he drank too much alcohol early on and didnt drink any water...so it
was extra toxic....im terrifed that its a sv* but i dont know how to
protect myself now that its all over....i mean im already exposed
right???? he said and still told me that he never once felt sick or
like he was going to be sick...it just happened randomly after he woke
up...and he was having TONS of gas...burmping and farting tons...it was
weird...i think it really must have just been that his sotmach coundlt
handle greasy food with beer, and thats a lot of both with no water or
anything....what do you guys think??? plus his work is giving him s***
for being sick...and i want to drive to his work and cuss them out!

[mitch04133]

Honestly....I don't think its a sv, but you never know. I would be panicing in you shoes too, but if it was a sv, he would have a general sick feeling about him also. Because a sv means a virus has entered your body and not only would you v* you would feel unwell. If he feels fine othewise than I think your safe. Just take the proper precautions, lysol door handles, clean the areawhere he v*, and wear rubber gloves when you do so. I think drink and eating too much made him v*. Please try and relax I know its hard but we are all here for you!! Edited by: mitch04133

[rubysoho120]

thanks...im still nervous...i will feel better in three days when i
know its okay...plus when he is hungry then i will feel better. but he
said he never did feel sicck or like he was gonna v* so im thinking it
doesnt sound like a sv* but like you said you never know scared Ruby

[rubysoho120]

he is feeling good...besides being tired...he ate soup and has been
drinking water and gateraid....so i think he will be okay...me on the
other hand just bleached the whole house and im freakin out...i really
dont want to get sick and all i can think about was all our kissing and
drink sharing yesterday....if it was a sv* wouldn't his stomach
actually hurt instead of not feeling anything...then suddenly n* and
once v*??? the feeling fine other than being tired from not sleeping.im
just worried...the house is pretty much clean..im even doing
laundry...but i dont know what to do...i ate some toast...but i still
dont feel like im safe...i feel like it really was from drinking beer
all day and not water and eating greasy foods...i think the beer just
poisioned him and his body couldnt handle food with the poision...does
that sound legitimate???

[kate1966]

Hey, the same thing happened to my husband when we went to the beach...he drank waaaaaaaaaaay too much beer, and not enough food i think, and he got pretty sick..he never v but felt like it really bad...and had stomach cramps...i hope he's better soon, and i doubt you will get anything from it...it's probably not a sv.

[marieb73]

It doesn't sound like sv at all. I mean, we've all had an av, whether or not we actually v*, and we all know the overall icky horrid feeling. He seems to have recovered really fast, so I think it was a beer and dehydration thing.





Dp you best to relax. I know it's hard, but please keep in mind that you probably have super hygeine and that would severely cut your chances even if it was an sv.

[rubysoho120]

thanks for the support guys...he is like totally himself wanting pizza
and salami sandwhiches...hes not even tired any more and he didnt even
take a nap...he just kept drinking fluids so im really thinking it was
food beer dehdratin thing...but still scary.