What i've noticed and heard from many people here is that they can sometimes get to a point in dealing with their fear (that's what this site is about, really) where right at the point they can tell themselves to calm down. Or, sometimes they panic right until the end. However, a trend is that right after they think, "oh, that wasn't so bad!" For some this episode helps and for others they go back to their emet ways. But, ultimately these people needed help just like us. Maybe one day we'll get to that point, be able to face our fears and do it withe ease, but for now the people are just showing us that we CAN do it, it's not impossible.


<3 Anya--