In my teens and early twenties I did NOT want kids. Then I decided if I was gonna have them, I would adopt. Then, after I got married, I started getting baby fever. We were not very careful with our contraception-not trying, but not NOT trying- and ended up having my first at 25. Then we had our second a little over two years later.
I love my kids so much. My first is a real handful, very hyperactive and inquisitive. She is a lot of work, but soo much fun! My second is a little more easy-going. She is the one that always has a smile for us!
I'm not gonna lie, my emet has skyrocketed since having the kids, but they are very much worth it, and the way I see it, having them is forcing me to deal with my issues.