My boyfriend is really the 'perfect' partner in terms of my emet-


He doesn't get upset with me (frustrated- yes, but if I was in his position I would be too), and also doesn't let me get away with not doing anything because of this issue. Being a nurse, he is the complete opposite of an enabler, and constantly puts things in perspective- it's really hard to contend that you have a rough deal with this phobia when he is dealing with people who are literally on their deathbed.


I am also extremely greatful that he DOESN'T do any of the rituals I suggest or that I do myself- I know that would only make my anxiety worse, as if he got in that habit I know it would escalate, and god forbid he DIDN'T do it on one occasion, I would freak. LOL- now I just tell myself that he is a nurse damnit, he knows more about the spread of illness than I do, and that I should leave him alone


*amber*