Quote Originally Posted by sage


That sounds like it totally sucks. I recommend a good cry, wallow in your pity-party for a while til you can't stand yourself, then make a life-plan of some sort and lay down the law with others as to how you will or will not tolerate being treated. Start with your husband!


Take care, and I hope you're feeling more positive soon.


You're right--it does start with hubby. He needs to support me a little more, that's for sure. OMG--I am always looking out for everyone else, then forget myself. Sometimes it all catches up with me and I break down. Then I feel guilty. I HAVE to see my daughter and hubby happy and content before myself, and sometimes it is hard because there are times when I need to sit (bad back), have a headache, work to do, etc., and they just don't understand! I get tired too.


I've been confronting stepson alot lately--like, CHANGE UNDERWEAR EVERY DAY, open the window because it smells in here, eewwwww, didn't you brush your teeth?!?, etc. Then I feel bad that I'm being mean, but jeez, this is disgusting! I've told him to to keep his bare hairy guerilla feet off my couches! YUCK.