Everyone always ruins it

[rubysoho120]

I hate this. I shouldnt be crying with a headache and stress on
Christmas. I feel like someone always ruins it for me. I have so many
traditions that I love, and Christmas has always been so important to
me. It was always my mom and my sisters and me and she always managed
to spoil us even though she was on welfare. And Im the heart and soul
of Christmas for my family, and someone always takes advantage of that.
Im crying because my bf is being a jerk. Hes been scroogy all morning
and totall dampered my Christmas spirt. plus he stupid and didnt finish
shopping so he told me this morning, Christmas eve that he needs the
car for an hour. And didnt communicated what the f*** was going on. I
tell im okay, I will get ready, and then more than an hour later,
almost two I call him asking what the heck is going on, that we need to
go, and I cant pack his stuff because he isnt dressed and ready. Im so
upset. I just hate this. Its not fair. He never communicates to me, and
Im always mad about it. And now he ruins Christmas, and he knows how
important it is to me. Things like this really make me think we
shouldn't get married even if he does eventually ask me. I dont know
any more. I just hate feeling like this.



Sorry for the pity party for one, but I cant help it at the moment

[calibmom24]

I am so sorry you are feeling like this! Guys can be such butts sometimes. Just try not to let him ruin your holiday!! I hope you do have a very Merry Christmas!!!

[daffodil]

I'm sorry you are having a hard time with your bf. I hope things get better, and you are able to enjoy Christmas. (((Hugs)))

[ladyvolfan]

I hope things brighten up for you...

[chicajojobe]

Haha, honey whoever says you shouldn't be crying and stressing on Christmas cleary does't know reality.

I've had meltdowns on two different Christmases. However, luckily, I managed to feel better both times. The first was in the morning, and after having breakfast I felt better. Then on another it was while visiting relatives (a trip I wasn't particularly excited about before hand) I had one in the evening after dinner, but my dad was nice about it and offered to take everyone out to see a movie. The movie was a nice distraction and made me feel 100% better.

You just have to avoid telling yourself that cetain things shouldn't happen on Christmas because if you step back, and look at it objectively you have to admit that it's really just any other day. It's only significant because culture and faith makes it sigificant. Modern day Christmas miracles are fine and good in movies, but in real life they're far less common. The perils of life exist even on Christmas, but that doesn't mean it can't still be a great day. It just won't necessarily be a perfect one. Try to just go with the flow as much as possible, and don't tell yourself that the entire day is ruined because something went wrong.