Gosh, I am not sure what to tell you. First off how old is he? His dad should have a healthy open discussion about it. Not in a mean way, cause he will shut down. I had porn tapes when I was younger, my boyfriend did, his friends did, and they usualy kept it hidden pretty well. He may just try to hide it better instead of obeying the rules or being honest. It isnt a great idea for downloading porn on the internet. Maybe you could scare him by saying that he will get a virus on his computer or something and it will ruin it. Or give him some sort of punishment everytime he does it, like a swear jar.But dont make him feel embarassed for wanting to look at it. Its pretty normal, unless its something like kiddy porn or something awful like that. I am no psychologist, but I guess thats the only advice i can think of. I also dont have kids. So what do I know. I guess ifhad a son looking at porn, I dont think I would be too mad personaly as long as its legal and I dont seeor know about it. All guys dothis kind of stuffno matter what, they will find a way. They haveraging hormones. I hope you guys workit out. GOOD LUCK [img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]