Thanks guys for all the good advice--I feel better now, knowing that I am not crazy to be really mad!


mak79007 ~~ He is 18, but acts like he's 14. He doesn't even remember to brush his teeth, but sure remembers porn site www's! He can't really hide it either because I know how to check into a computer for sites that people "think" they deleted :0


christianne ~~ That's exactly what I did I told him he needs to talk to him or I will. I think he's trying to spare the kid my wrath and said he'd talk to him tomorrow night.


jandub ~~ I agree--when he gets his own place, he can do whatever he wants. While he's here, he does need to abide by our household rules. It's the same thing if he smoked. We'd ask him to do it outside, because we don't want it inside. We've had people come over and go outside to smoke and there was no problem--they respected our wishes. Of course he's horny at his age, I agree, he also is a pot smoker. He can't do that here either, so it's all about respect and self control


lianaismadchill ~~ Yeh, it's normal to sneak stuff like this, but if he's prepared to do that behind our backs, then he needs to be prepared for the consequences of lying to us. About kicking him out--it's not completely for the reason of watching porn, or we would have done it the first time he was caught, but he'd be kicked out for disrespect and not following the rules that were made very clear to him. Same thing with work--you don't follow the rules, you get fired.