Yeah, I think what would bother me is that it was laid out from the beginning no porn and he did it anyhow, not so much the porn cuz an 18 yr old guy w/ porn is not all that unusual but you said you didn't want it in YOUR house and while he's there he should respect that boundary. Nicki has a good point tho, he probably is depressed or something, why else risk where you live? Strange. I hope your hubby talks to him and things settle down for you soon ... this constant stress is no way to live.