Well I guess Im going to be ballsy here, since I know we don't get along, but honestly, I think the rule is horriable, you are telling him, do what I say, not what I do. So its okay for you to look at porn but not him. Hes 18, of course he is going to look at porn. What man, young or old, doesn't enjoy porn. It is a very healthy thing to masturbate and you telling him, its not okay. I think that is crazy, and not okay for him. I know you have said all these things about him, and his disrespectfulness, but honsetly I think he just wants to get off, and what is wrong with that? At least hes not out rapeing poor innocent girls, right?