And I'll say this one more time, Hippychick was WAY out of line in making her first nasty remark in this thread.
My OP originally had just a few words of encouragement and to turn that into what she clearly was trying to turn it into was simply wrong of her.
Being an adult NOT wanting to cause this forum to be disrupted (huh, imagine a MODERATOR NOT doing something to cause a disruption) she COULD have been an adult and either not posted here at all, or just given some meaningless little comment agreeing with the ENCOURAGEMENT that originally was in the OP.
And neither did Sage need to chime in and add to the issue.
I came here the other behaving AS an adult and only gave some words of encouragement and this 2 bitter individuals have made it a point to get this all stirred up and now it appears NONE of us will behave like adults now so it will remain this way until one of those two mods uses this fantastic opportunity to ban me (which I somehow have to wonder if thats not been in the back of someones mind since my first post here).