Hmmm. This is a tough one. I know I am older than you so my suggestions may sound like motherly, or older sisterly, advice.


A relationship is give and take, based on mutual love, affection, compassion and understanding. If you are spending your time worrying about whether he still cares for you and you notice that he is posting on facebook, but doesn't communicate with you, a re-evaluation of his affections needs to be made by you.


Feeling as though you want to die because he hasn't communicated with you is giving him way too much power in controlling your feelings. Your feelings are yours. If he is not interested in you the way you are interested in him, take some time to reassess what you want. Maybe you are wasting your affections for someone who doesn't deserve it.


We have all been there --- experiencing unrequited love. Anyone on these boards is married, with kids, will affirm that a relationship can only work with two people equally working at it. A lopsided relationship will wear you down at every level. You deserve so much better.





Stella