Hi,
I have posted before about my "mom" experiences. We have 3 children, ages 11, 8 and 6. I never v* during pregnancy or labor. Felt n* a bit but was able to get through it. I do have a very hard time when the girls are sick. My hubby handles a lot and I have developed a network of good friends who have helped. Our families live across the country. I cannot stay in the room with any of them when they feel ill. I am hoping to get better. It is getting easier as the kids get older and more able to care for themselves.
Children vs. phobia ====> children win! I wouldn't trade being a mother for anything!
Best wishes to you and your hubby,
Joanne