Sorry I haven't responded in such a long time, but here goes.

My fiance (Jade) and I had a very long talk about everything about a week ago. She has decided to stop seeing Bill and has not seen him since the talk. We both realize that we love each other and that her seeing Bill was not a good idea. I love her regardless of what my family or friends think of her. I mean at the point when I wrote this post I was seriously three seconds away from telling her to pack up and leave.

The thing is (and this is important I forgot to mention it) both of us have borderline personality disorder and we tend to do things to each other that are inconsiderate. Case and point, the other day we had to go return our new cat Gaby to the shelter. My friend Ron had to drive us because we don't have a car. On the way back, Jade was very upset that we had to return Gaby and she was crying. I did not notice this and proceeded to have a light hearted, fun conversation with Ron. See? I'm at fault sometimes too!

I appreciate all of the answers you gave me, but things have somehow worked out and we are fine. Both of us are looking to move south due to our seasonal depression that we have going on. If it's sunny we do much better with each other. :-) Thanks you guys!