I have 2 young daughters and a very busy husband, so no, my house is FAR from perfect. I also don't mind if my friends' houses aren't perfect. We all go through life stages, and right now my life stage requires that I put enjoying life with my husband and children first, and keeping a perfect house somewhere down the line! I have had to get over many of my idiosyncracies (spelling?) to be a better wife and mom, and my germaphobia went WAY before my fear of others being s* near me!