Hello, Melissa. I have to say I've been right where you are. You didn't ask for advice so I won't give it to you...but if you want my opinion, ask. I have 3 kids, and all are in public school. I honestly can't say for certain whether or not my phobia has gotten worse since having kids. I think I'd likely be just as phobic, and possibly a shut-in without them.

I'm new, too, but welcome.