Guys i know i havent posted for a while but i'm in shreads at the moment,as some of u know i don't have any contact with my family,i.e mum and dad and this is over my brother......so i've been without contact from them about 6weeks.........well tonite i got a visit from my cousin,who has been at my nans bedside all day as she is dying.She's been ill for 3weeks but doctors told my mum that she was dying last weekend.....well i don't know why i'm shocked but my parents couldn't even pick up the phone to tell me this......so of course this evening i'm feeling sick and don't know what to do.....of course as i have problems getting out i haven't seen my nan fora good few yrs about 2....people have offered to take me to c her this evening but it was gone 9'oclock and with the combination of shock,fear of going to an old peoples home(as they are always warm) and angry that my own family couldn't even tell me my nan is dying and has been for a whole week,i just feel sick to the stomach....apparantley my mum was going to e-mail.......that would have been nice of her!!!!!!!. 'm not going to complain about my life and how these things affect my life as it arrelavant with my nan dying.....if she is still alive tomorrow,should i go and c her,or remember her as i saw her 2yrs ago.or live with the anger of not saying goodbye....I just feel so confused....
i'm not expexting for answers guys i just don't have anyone to turn to no family or real friends and i just wanted to get this off my chest.....i don't think it will help but its worth a try
take care
vicky