Awww *hugs* Well give the new guy a lil chance. I think it's so hard to get over people and maybe we never do we just learn to make new memories and have dirrfent good times with other people. Maybe you are not quite over the other guy yet but thats ok there is no set time period on getting over these things, but you will be able to move on one day. Give the new guy a chance to make good memories with you, but if the shemistry aint there it aint there, you cant force it. I used to think I would NEVER have that chemistry ever and I did. Ot jsut happens maybe when you are ready maybe not. But dont beat yourself up over this. I can understand why you wanan be over the other guy because he treated you badly, but you just cant turn feelings off that way.....if only we could hey?
And I personally believe it is better to be alone...but maybe I'm a lil biased right now [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]I've always believe you can only rely on yourself and not to trust anyone........but Love doesn't seem to listen to that!
Don't push yourself or beat yourself up too much, everyone comes into our lives to teach us something (as cheesey as that sounds)
Be courageous, believe in yourself, and be the best woman you can be. I'm with you all the way.