It IS a tough one! I was thinking about it earlier because part of me would want to have it myself because I would have more control over it and I also wouldn't want my baby to be sick. On the other hand, he had a sv* once and didn't seem to be phased by it at all. He wasn't scared, it was like it was no big deal. So, I know that it is selfish, but sometimes I think I would rather have him v* than have myself v*.
I HATE this phobia.