I understand where you're coming from. I see my boyfriend frustrated with my phobia on a daily basis and it makes me feel horrible that I'm such a bother to him.

The best advice I can give you is to just be there and listen when he needs someone to talk to or vent to or just a shoulder to cry on. Read up some of the FAQ's on this site so you can try to understand where he is coming from and be able to say "I understand what you're going through".

I know it's hard but just being there can be the best thing in the world. Good luck with everything.