Thank you, thank you for your kind words. It's nice to know I'm not the only one with these battles. I have a 48hr rule. I feel if no one else has gotten it in 48hrs that is half the battle. 'Swimmer' I love the thought that we may be immune to some things because we're older Also, I like the 'yuk' word. I use the words 'spit up'.......can't use the 'v', 'p' or TU' words. I know irrational but it's one small way I can deal a tiny bit better with my own kids. I really hope i can fine some small ways to make this thought process better becaus eit truly interfers with my life all the time....I'm all ready dreading winter. Thank you again!